Stop Paying the Price of Being TOO Nice!
This is the enrollment page for
" Creating Better Boundaries for
Sensitives, Empaths, and Reflectors"
You are here because I sent you a personal invitation to enroll in my pilot Boundaries Coaching Course. This 6-week course starts Saturday morning March 7 2020. Each session is about 90 minutes of group-coaching, in-class exercises, strategy and tactics, and weekly homework.
I'm so excited to get these tools into your hands!
Because this is a pilot, I am keeping the cost as low as I can
and still pay my rent and put food on my table.
It won't be this low again.
The early bird tuition is $397 until midnight Friday, March 6, 2020.
and then $437 up until midnight March 27, 2020.
First class starts Saturday, March 28, 2020
10:00 AM Pacific Time; 1:00 pm Eastern
This is the enrollment page for
" Creating Better Boundaries for
Sensitives, Empaths, and Reflectors"
You are here because I sent you a personal invitation to enroll in my pilot Boundaries Coaching Course. This 6-week course starts Saturday morning March 7 2020. Each session is about 90 minutes of group-coaching, in-class exercises, strategy and tactics, and weekly homework.
I'm so excited to get these tools into your hands!
Because this is a pilot, I am keeping the cost as low as I can
and still pay my rent and put food on my table.
It won't be this low again.
The early bird tuition is $397 until midnight Friday, March 6, 2020.
and then $437 up until midnight March 27, 2020.
First class starts Saturday, March 28, 2020
10:00 AM Pacific Time; 1:00 pm Eastern
I know. I know. Boy, do I know.
Reflectors need their 28-day decision-making process.
However, I've been talking to you Reflectors about this for a while, and
several of you have said, "I'm in when you launch."
If you're clear this is your next step, I ask that you don't wait for the last minute,
because this pilot group will have a limited number of students.
I am expecting you to be ready to dive in and shake off your self-limiting patterns and
begin to dissolve some of those pesky boundary infractions that
steal your time, resources, energy, and joy.
Reflectors need their 28-day decision-making process.
However, I've been talking to you Reflectors about this for a while, and
several of you have said, "I'm in when you launch."
If you're clear this is your next step, I ask that you don't wait for the last minute,
because this pilot group will have a limited number of students.
I am expecting you to be ready to dive in and shake off your self-limiting patterns and
begin to dissolve some of those pesky boundary infractions that
steal your time, resources, energy, and joy.
The course starts when you enroll.
- I'll send you my eBook "Assertiveness for Sensitives, Empaths, and Reflectors" with your initial assignment, which is an assessment. It is designed to prime your unconscious about your intention to take back your power. This will get you out of your head and into your heart where your soul is yelling and waving to get your attention.
- I'll send you the link to "Creating Healthy Personal Boundaries In Spite of Your Openness."
This is a 60-minute video of a workshop I did for Karen Curry's Quantum Alignment Show. It is where I met a few of you. You'll want to view this IMPORTANT INFORMATION ABOUT HOW WE FORM BOUNDARIES and complete the assignment before our first class. - Give yourself a few weeks for this assignment. Commit to your own self-interest. This is your life.
“Until one is committed, there is hesitancy, the chance to draw back, always ineffectiveness.
Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which
kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favour all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.”
― William Hutchison Murray
Concerning all acts of initiative and creation, there is one elementary truth the ignorance of which
kills countless ideas and splendid plans: that the moment one definitely commits oneself, then providence moves too. All sorts of things occur to help one that would never otherwise have occurred. A whole stream of events issues from the decision, raising in one's favour all manner of unforeseen incidents, meetings and material assistance, which no man could have dreamed would have come his way. Whatever you can do or dream you can, begin it.
Boldness has genius, power and magic in it. Begin it now.”
― William Hutchison Murray
Here are a just few things we will cover in this course:
Here are a few of the tools, tricks, and techniques we will use:
- How your boundaries help or hinder you
- Identify your self-inflicted boundary infractions and how they limit you.
- Identify boundary infractions imposed on you by others.
- Setting up internal RED FLAGS when boundary infractions occur .... so you interrupt your automatic reaction ... and instead 'go-to' your REHEARSED conscious response ... AND STAY THERE.
- Preparing and practicing alternative responses to infractions
- Break the attack-victim-rescue drama-triad
- Using classic negotiating skills to get what you want
- Prefacing those intimidating confrontations
- Meeting resistance with Love and embracing the lesson
- Tools to cut through the Gorgon knot of co-dependency
- Ending enmeshment with the powerful people in your life
- How to retrain yourself how to treat you
- How to retrain others how to treat you
Here are a few of the tools, tricks, and techniques we will use:
- EFT, NLP, Time Line Healing, Energy Editing, Emotional Coding, and more ...
- Spiritual Principles to strengthen your spine when you're feeling wobbly
- Spiritual Mind Treatments and Meditatoin MP3s
- Inspired music to hum for courage
Expect push back! As soon as you commit to this work your brain will try to take over with all your logical reasons and excuses, all your avoidance and resistance patterns with appear and scare the hell out of you. These REASONS AND EXCUSES have been with you for much of your life
and they think they own you. They don't. They are just RENTING SPACE IN YOUR HEAD!
Don't panic. Welcome this push back! It is your ego trying to avoid discomfort of change. Be willing to feel uncomfortable for a while ... it will pass. You are reframing your story to one that empowers you and states that "I am no longer willing to settle."
and they think they own you. They don't. They are just RENTING SPACE IN YOUR HEAD!
Don't panic. Welcome this push back! It is your ego trying to avoid discomfort of change. Be willing to feel uncomfortable for a while ... it will pass. You are reframing your story to one that empowers you and states that "I am no longer willing to settle."
These are the shortcuts I wish I'd had 30 years ago!
Before you decline this life-changing opportunity - think about about this:
What is YOUR REAL-LIFE COST of allowing boundary infractions to limit you?
Will not being able to say "NO" to salespeople COST YOU MONEY?
Probably. Salesmen see you coming. You absorb their enthusiasm and think "I can do this too." You don't want to hurt their feelings, so you sign up for time-shares, vacation plans, real estate flipping systems, automatic trading platforms, "How-To" courses for just about everything -- and you rarely use what you bought! You just didn't want to hurt their feelings, and after all they took all that time talking to you, you owe them something, don't you? How much money have you spent because it seemed like a good idea at the time, and then felt too ashamed or guilty to admit buyer's remorse. And you still owe the money. Just asking.
Will continuing to allow boundary infractions ROB YOU OF YOUR SELF-WORTH?
How can I convince you that you are a gift beyond price, that you are powerful beyond measure, that you have a right to fully express your magnificence in this life? I know this is true of you. I will work with you so you recognize this Truth, as well.
Will continuing to allow your boundaries to be invaded ERODE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE?
Definitely. Not thinking well of yourself costs you everything. Self-judgement usually stems from baseless fear and the scariest fear is the fear with no name. In coaching we name those suckers, call them out, and call them lies.
Will continuing to allow boundary infractions WASTE YOUR TIME ON EARTH?
There is no price you can put on the smothering of your soul. There is no ceiling to the cost of ignoring its cry to be seen and honored. The world is waiting for you to show up as your Greater-Yet-To-Be.
Think about this: You volunteered to be here. Out of the billions of souls that applied to the Earth Experiment, you made the cut. And you showed up on my doorstep because you are called to do something...
There are more Lightworkers on the planet now than have ever been before. We are here to do important work, and to do that, we all need to be empowered to act in the self-interest that brought us here in the first place.
I believe we have a Divine Appointment. I attract incredible clients and that means you. Whether I'd done a reading or two for you, or just done your chart, we are now connected. I know you are an incredible expression of the Divine in human form. The world needs you operating at full power! The world pays a price when you do not realize your unlimited potential.
We are the ones we have been waiting for and it's time to accelerate our evolution to meet the world we are creating!
Please don't choose to hide your light, because you are afraid to show up. Don't be afraid that by becoming a more powerful human someone won't like you. The people who matter will LOVE YOU MORE FOR SHOWING UP BIG! Those other people ... they just want to keep you small because it serves them!
Before you decline this life-changing opportunity - think about about this:
What is YOUR REAL-LIFE COST of allowing boundary infractions to limit you?
Will not being able to say "NO" to salespeople COST YOU MONEY?
Probably. Salesmen see you coming. You absorb their enthusiasm and think "I can do this too." You don't want to hurt their feelings, so you sign up for time-shares, vacation plans, real estate flipping systems, automatic trading platforms, "How-To" courses for just about everything -- and you rarely use what you bought! You just didn't want to hurt their feelings, and after all they took all that time talking to you, you owe them something, don't you? How much money have you spent because it seemed like a good idea at the time, and then felt too ashamed or guilty to admit buyer's remorse. And you still owe the money. Just asking.
Will continuing to allow boundary infractions ROB YOU OF YOUR SELF-WORTH?
How can I convince you that you are a gift beyond price, that you are powerful beyond measure, that you have a right to fully express your magnificence in this life? I know this is true of you. I will work with you so you recognize this Truth, as well.
Will continuing to allow your boundaries to be invaded ERODE YOUR SELF-CONFIDENCE?
Definitely. Not thinking well of yourself costs you everything. Self-judgement usually stems from baseless fear and the scariest fear is the fear with no name. In coaching we name those suckers, call them out, and call them lies.
Will continuing to allow boundary infractions WASTE YOUR TIME ON EARTH?
There is no price you can put on the smothering of your soul. There is no ceiling to the cost of ignoring its cry to be seen and honored. The world is waiting for you to show up as your Greater-Yet-To-Be.
Think about this: You volunteered to be here. Out of the billions of souls that applied to the Earth Experiment, you made the cut. And you showed up on my doorstep because you are called to do something...
There are more Lightworkers on the planet now than have ever been before. We are here to do important work, and to do that, we all need to be empowered to act in the self-interest that brought us here in the first place.
I believe we have a Divine Appointment. I attract incredible clients and that means you. Whether I'd done a reading or two for you, or just done your chart, we are now connected. I know you are an incredible expression of the Divine in human form. The world needs you operating at full power! The world pays a price when you do not realize your unlimited potential.
We are the ones we have been waiting for and it's time to accelerate our evolution to meet the world we are creating!
Please don't choose to hide your light, because you are afraid to show up. Don't be afraid that by becoming a more powerful human someone won't like you. The people who matter will LOVE YOU MORE FOR SHOWING UP BIG! Those other people ... they just want to keep you small because it serves them!
That's it. That's my spiel.
Enroll or not. The right people will fill my seats. This is known.
I attracted you because you are ready to show up. You are still reading this because you really want to change; your soul certainly wants to come out and play bigger. But your human brain still needs one more convincing argument or testimonial, it needs to research one more self-improvement course, it needs to wait for a better time - after the remodel is done, after the kids graduate. Yada, yada, yada.
WHAT YOUR BRAIN WANTS IS TOOLS!
I'll give you tools! Your brain needs to think it is in charge, so we will leverage that desire and give it stuff to do!
With this course you will have results.
In your journal you will be documenting those results.
You will have EVIDENCE that you are greater than your conditioning.
You will have more trust in yourself and in your worth.
You will understand and honor the importance of your unique contribution.
You will accelerate your evolution so you can get on with the work you came here to do.
Enroll or not. The right people will fill my seats. This is known.
I attracted you because you are ready to show up. You are still reading this because you really want to change; your soul certainly wants to come out and play bigger. But your human brain still needs one more convincing argument or testimonial, it needs to research one more self-improvement course, it needs to wait for a better time - after the remodel is done, after the kids graduate. Yada, yada, yada.
WHAT YOUR BRAIN WANTS IS TOOLS!
I'll give you tools! Your brain needs to think it is in charge, so we will leverage that desire and give it stuff to do!
With this course you will have results.
In your journal you will be documenting those results.
You will have EVIDENCE that you are greater than your conditioning.
You will have more trust in yourself and in your worth.
You will understand and honor the importance of your unique contribution.
You will accelerate your evolution so you can get on with the work you came here to do.
Still hesitating? I understand. I reeeeaaaaly do understand.
The possibility of change can paralyze some of us.
Better the devil we know than the devil we don't. Right?
So we settle for what we have and justify it by saying, "It could be worse."
Yes. It could be worse.
A tsunami would be worse.
An earthquake would be worse.
But losing a toxic relationship - or job - or victim role that steals your life force, your resources, and your joy and your hope --- that is NOT worse than stepping into an unknown that has the potential to be SO MUCH BETTER -- because you are in charge of MAKING IT UP THE WAY YOU WANT!
No THING is worse than wasting the life you have right now.
Our brain justifies our delays and oscillations. Should I? Shouldn't I? The brain will play this game until you stop breathing. Then looking back you'll wonder: "When did I stop believing in myself. When did I stop loving me?" But by then it will be too late.
Look, I was 64 years old when I discovered Human Design and woke up to my Reflector Nature.
I have not looked back since!
Before that I did not understand why I had such porous boundaries. I did not understand that I was easily swayed to give my power away and postpone my dreams while helping everyone else make theirs come true.
I look back at so many major decisions I made for the wrong reasons, the result of imprinting and conditioning and not having any boundaries and being influenced by everyone around me!
I do not want that to be your experience. I want you to put your self-interest first - sooner than I did!
That is why I love Human Design and why I use it in the training. In the chaotic muddle of our cross-threaded boundary infractions, Human Design provides a tidy way to systematically isolate specific tendencies. When we see how these traits either sabotage or supported us, we can leverage them to create a life that works better for us.
Once we isolate and name our pattern and boundary infraction, it is a target that we can shoot dead!
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Oh well. Maybe you will never be ready. Maybe you will never find the right time. Maybe you just need to fall down one a few more times and pay a few more life prices before you understand that you are in charge of your own show and that it can be a lot easier when you are putting yourself first by creating and maintaining boundaries that work for you. You are not being selfish by claiming your self-interest! You being strong in your personal power and setting and maintain boundaries so that you can do your work does not take away from the people around you.
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When you enroll I will send you to the download page where you can access the video "Creating Healthy Personal Boundaries in Spite of Your Openness"
the Assertiveness eBook and your first assignment. I look forward to playing with you and watching you bloom in the self-assured, and truly empowered human you truly are. Sending you Blessings now! Leslie vanWinkle Your Fellow Lightworker 
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